Astrology and human behavior

I am in my thires. Over all these years, I have met several people of these people. Some people were nice, whereas some were not so nice.

There are some people who often come across as rude. OK, there could be one instance where they could have been rude. But I would still give the a pass. But if I noticed that they have been rude to me on several occasions I would call that out. I would tell them that their behaviour was not nice.

To some people, when I told them that their behaviour towards me or someone else was not nice. They responded by saying "I did not realise that and I would try to be nice."

There were some people whom I told them that their behaviour was not nice. They said "Oh, this is how I am. I am not going to change for anybody." So do you expect the world to cope with your atrocious behaviour? Give me a break.

Then there were many people who said that "Oh my behaviour is not governed by my nature. Rather, it is governed by my zodiac sign or my sunsign." Such a lame excuse!

It is so not true. There are many people who give these excuses and get away with that terrible behaviour. I always feel like telling them that your behaviour is not because of your zodiac sign or sunsign. No planet is governing your behaviour. You were NOT taught manners. Your terrible behaviour in your childhood was not corrected either by your parents or whoever took care of you. The elder person in your life never corrected your bad behaviour. They never gave you the much needed feedback that this behaviour is not acceptable. They never tried even to rectify. You then never even try to tell you to behave properly. And that is why you are like this. It is not because of any planet or star. It is not because of you were not taught well. It is because you were a spoiled brat in your childhood. And now you are just an adult bully. Nobody in the world is going to cope up with your nasty behaviour. Either you improve or continue to be hated just the way you are.

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